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Surprise! It’s been exactly six years since I started my journey to financial independence and started writing this blog (though I only took it public July 2018). Today I want to celebrate by reflecting on anything new I’ve learned in the last year since my 5 year anniversary post.
As background, this is by far the longest time I have consistently done anything – and I mean anything. A job, a school, a hobby – anything 🙂 . So let’s get into why that might be, what I’ve learned, what’s changed, and answer a few reader questions as well!
What I’ve Learned
Blogging Is Way More Than Writing
Let’s start with a depressing truth that I had no idea about when I started this blog six years ago 🙂 . I thought blogging involved banging some words into a computer and pressing publish because that’s exactly what I did for years before taking this blog public. A private blog is exactly that – basically an online journal with nothing else involved.
Well it turns out that public blogging is a completely different beast. It involves writing, editing, photography, photo editing (or choosing stock photos), technical stuff and (if its monetized) advertising and affiliate challenges. Not to mention talking to your wonderful readers, which can be in the form of responding to comments or tweets, Instagram comments, DMs and Facebook messages.
On a related note, if you want, blogging can also involve posting on all of the social media sites I just mentioned. All this to say, it’s way more than just writing and the list of things blogging involves, can be infinite. I just included a list of the bits I’ve chosen to engage with above 🙂 . So that was a huge misconception that I had, but let’s flip it on its head:
Blogging Is What You Make It
The positive side of the above is that you can do whatever you want on and around a blog. I’ve done this in that this blog and my social media accounts, are a catch all for all my random interests that never previously had a home. I used to post film reviews on Tumblr to an audience of 1, write restaurant reviews on my personal Facebook and send random thoughts into the Twitterverse.
Well now, that all is concentrated within my blog efforts (sorry, not sorry 😉 ). For example, I post film and food reviews on my Instagram (like the below) and finally have an outlet for all the book quotes I highlight on my Kindle (I post them on Twitter).
Luckily, I’ve heard from several people that they enjoy these seemingly random posts. I can now concentrate all the things I love doing, into one hobby because blogging is what you make it.
It can be anything you want. You don’t have to stay in your lane if you don’t want to and I feel very grateful that I discovered this about blogging. I now have an outlet for all the things that were previously bursting out of me without a home 🙂 .
Blogging Is A Long Game Skill
I saw a challenge on Instagram recently where artists re-do a drawing they created years earlier and after seeing those drawings side-by-side, I was struck by how much their craft had improved (though it was still good to begin with). This made me realize: We’re all still growing.
I may look at an artist or a blogger and think, “Damn! I wish I was as good as them!” but I’m not just comparing my starting point to someone else’s middle or end point, but I’m also not acknowledging that we all continue to get better if we work at something.
I think my writing has improved a lot since my first few posts. They are embarrassingly still up on this site and I will keep them up to hopefully give that same ah-ha moment to others (just as these Instagram artists gave me) and also to give an honest account of my journey (writing and financial independence-wise).
These are the words I wrote at that time of my life and changing them to be more polished (or orderly…or clear 😉 ) seems disingenuous to me. The point of this blog is to catalog my journey, in all of its unclear and chaotic glory 😉 .
Similar to improving a writing skill in general, I think blogging is also a skill that gets better with time and me thinking that it was static and that I’m either good or bad, was silly of me. I think I’m better at this now, than I was six years ago, and I (hopefully) will be even better six months from now. There is no end-point to growing skills, just constant improvement and that’s exciting to me 🙂 .
Blogger Burnout Is Legit
I had never experienced blogger or writer burn out until I attempted (and won!!!) NaNoWriMo this November. That was by design, since I chose my weekly posting schedule based on how often I had produced blog posts the previous year. It was an anti-schedule in the same way my budget is actually an anti-budget based on my averages from the previous year.
Well, now I’ve felt that white hot heat of burnout creeping onto me and I’m happy it occurred at the end of me basically being on a writing frenzy, that then allowed me to take a bit of a break from writing. My writing stores were almost depleted and they needed some days (or maybe weeks 😉 …) of napping and reading and recuperating to get back to full capacity.
I was curious when I attempted that challenge, if I would even be able to do it since I only usually write when I feel inspired to do so – and that feeling does not emerge on any type of schedule 🙂 . Some weekends I would write 3 full posts and others would involve a 0 word count.
I can’t predict what my creative juices are going to do, but it’s good to know that they can be wrangled a little bit. After almost a month of writing more than I basically ever have before, it was only at the end that the words stopped flowing naturally, and that might have been partially because of the stress of seeing that big deadline looming only days away.
So, I can now personally confirm that burnout, even from a hobby, is legit. Let’s see what other silly things I confirm during the rest of my retirement 🙂 .
I Still Don’t Want To Write A Book
A few people have been asking me to write a book. One is actually a publisher and another works with a literary agent they think I would get along with. I’ve also heard from several readers that they would like me to take on a book endeavor. And even though I am deeply flattered that anyone would want to read my words in a more permanent format, I don’t currently want to do it 🙂 .
I’ve joked that I never say never…except about having kids 🙂 . But, similarly to how helping care for my baby cousin for 3 weeks even further solidified my decision to not have kids, NaNoWriMo only further entrenched my desire to not write a book.
Writing with a deadline was difficult enough, even though I chose to do it 😉 . Adding all the things that publishing a book requires, like editors and sales pressure and the constant marketing needed to make back a book’s advance, on top of writing on a deadline, sounds like a nightmare to me.
It sounds like the opposite of fun and I’m all about fun at this point in my life 🙂 . I’m curious if years of retirement will later change my mind on this front and make me welcome such a challenge, but this is where I stand for now.
Answering Your Questions
I asked on Twitter and Instagram if y’all had any questions for me and here’s what I got back:
How do you blog? Do you draft on paper, on your site? How do you get ideas?
I try to write my stream of consciousness thoughts in Evernote. I have the app on my phone and my computer. Writing there is easier than writing on paper and then transcribing it into WordPress. Once I have enough rough sentences that explain what I want to talk about, I paste them into WordPress and write the actual sentences there 🙂 .
However, some ideas are more visual and I need to put pen to paper, so then I do use a notebook and then transfer the info into WordPress. WordPress is where I write my official drafts though. Evernote and paper are just for vague thoughts.
My ideas just come to me – sometimes at inopportune times, like when I’m trying to drift off to sleep 🙂 . Other times, it’s sparked by a reader asking me a question and realizing other people might have the same query and benefit from the answer. At times, a thought comes to me when I’m washing dishes or staring at the sky while lounging outside – they come at random times and I try to write them down in Evernote immediately before they drift away.
Luckily, I have never been hard pressed for ideas. I have over a hundred drafts in my WordPress and lots of ideas in my project management platform Asana. If I have just a general post idea, I put it as a title, along with my other ideas there that I keep sorted by category in a visual fashion – it helps me keep everything organized in my mind. This is what that looks like:
What’s the best platform to get started blogging?
Like I mentioned, I blog through WordPress and have Bluehost as my hosting provider because they were the cheapest. I chose the cheapest option because I didn’t know if I’d like blogging publicly, so I was hedging my risk, but I regret that decision now.
The one thing a host is supposed to do in my eyes, is stay up, and my site goes down monthly because of Bluehost. I’ve discussed it with them multiple times and there’s been no solution, so if I continue to blog after October 2021 (when I’m reassessing blogging’s role in my retirement), I’ll switch hosts to a much more expensive, but reliable solution.
What would you still do the same or what would you change on your journey?
I’m on the fence about this one. I ask myself “Would I have taken the blog public sooner? Would I have stopped lurking on social media sooner?” I think the answer to the former is no and the latter is yes.
I think writing the blog for 3.5 years privately helped me figure out my voice and grow and not be overwhelmed with learning to FIRE and blog at the same time. I usually tackle one new skill at a time. I did this with FIRE, then keto, and then blogging, which I think has helped me to not get overwhelmed with multiple things and give up as a result.
Does blogging provide you income?
Some? Yes. Enough to make a serious impact on my finances or make me rich? Fuck no 🙂 . This is especially true when the dollars are translated to dollars per hour. For example, see this tweet from August:
#Blogging is the best way to make money FAST💰! I did it and YOU can too! Here’s what I’ve made👀:Y1: $0Y2: $0Y3: $0Y4: $0Y5: -$800Y6: $1,600Blogging is the ultimate get rich quick scheme!!!…as long as rich = $5.71/hr and quick = years🤣🤣🤣.
— A Purple Life (@APurpleLifeBlog) August 30, 2020
I broke everything down in my annual income post here, but over the last six years, I’ve earned $0.26 a hour from this blog. And that amount does not account for all the time I spend on social media 😉 or other blog-related things – just the time I was writing the actual posts. If I factor everything that goes into the blog into this calculation, I suspect I’m making like a penny an hour – you know, life changing stuff 🙂 .
Conclusion
And that’s it! I’ve promised that I’ll continue writing weekly until my 1 year retirement anniversary in October. After that, I’ll reassess the place blogging has in my life, but based on how I feel right now, I’m hopeful that I’ll want to keep writing and will celebrate many blog anniversary milestones with y’all to come 🙂 . Thank you so much for being here 🙂 !
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I’m here to tell you the real truth. FIRE Blogging is a scam. It’s the only way to ‘retire early’ and I know the secret of how you can do it too!
All you have to do is be like me: Write a blog for free for 3.5 years. Then take it public and make -$117.09 writing it for another year. Then monetize it and make -$839 the next year. THEN in your 6th year of writing make $2,070.75 of profit and live on that. It’s super simple!
Just do daily work for 6 years and make a profit of $1,114.66 total: $185.78 a year or $0.26 an hour. It’s foolproof! It has almost as good of a return as an MLM 😉 !
Always Sunny tellin’ it like it is.
Obviously, I’m completely joking. FIRE blogging generally would be a horrible plan to fund a retirement – or any lifestyle. I explained in this post about how blogging has turned out to be my dream job that it also pays basically no money. So then, why does it seem like the only way to retire early is to have a huge FIRE blog?
The Big Blogger ‘Camera Obscura’
As someone who was a lurker and reader in the FIRE community for years before peeking my head out and then raising my hand and then, years later, finally joining it, I think I can see this situation from both sides. Before I was a part of this community, I would see the same 5 bloggers or so, quoted in every mainstream article about FIRE. And those 5 bloggers had retired years ago, but also made a substantial amount from their blogs. And this is a weird tension.
More popular bloggers are by definition going to be making more money because of their larger audiences, so the bloggers I was more likely to hear about, are by definition bigger, money making bloggers. To put this into perspective, we actually hear from a relatively small percentage of actual early retirees because most (like my Mom) don’t have blogs. They’re just living their retired lives 🙂 .
Also, as I mentioned above, most people who have blogs, (retirees included) make basically no money from it. So FIRE bloggers that are big enough to be mentioned in mainstream media, are already usually a subset of two groups: retirees and bloggers who make money.
They are outliers, but because they are most of what we see, we can point to them and say “See! That’s the only way to retire early – to have a blog that shows people how to retire early!” It seems like the people who sell a book for a lot of money about how to sell a book for a lot of money. It’s a weird cyclical conversation that gives me pyramid scheme vibes. And this can appear to be the case, even if a FIRE blog in general (or the income from a blog) was not a part of the person’s original retirement plan.
Blogging Is Not A Great Income Plan
Putting aside the outliers for a second, the truth is that it’s actually quite rare to make any money from a blog and even more rare to make enough to live on. Income from a blog is also very unstable and is one of the first things to drop during a recession – marketing and advertising budgets get slashed, as we saw in March.
For example, the ad revenue from this site hasn’t yet recovered almost a year later. Some companies, understandably, started advertising less and other companies with affiliate programs I use cut the (already small) commissions or even lowered them to 0%. Also, unlike a salary, these changes can happen at any time. There is no guarantee you’ll make money from month to month.
Making Money From A FIRE Blog
So blogging in general is not a great plan if you’re looking to fund your lifestyle, but my situation in particular seems weirder because this is apparently a FIRE blog (or so it’s been called by others 😉 ). It’s basically a blog about me and I’m on FIRE, soooo I guess technically it’s a FIRE blog, though I’m sure that’s not apparent by the random topics I cover each week. I just write about whatever I feel like banging into this computer on a Wednesday morning, which often has little to do with money or financial independence in particular 🙂 .
But now I’m retired and I make a little money off of this blog. This is strange because I assume y’all are here reading this BECAUSE I was on the path to FIRE. If I was just some woman without a goal talking about random things every week, I imagine this would be far less interesting to you (let me know if I’m wrong in the comments 😉 ).
So it’s weirdly circular like the ouroboros below – the serpent that eats itself. This blog is fairly popular because I was on the path to retirement and now after 6 years, I’m making a little money off of this blog for that same reason.
That doesn’t look comfortable bro.
I’m obviously not rolling in the dough from blogging, but after all these years, I am making a little money from this blog and that feels weird and meta to me since it’s a blog about my money journey…which is now paying me a little for my time.
The meta weirdness of it was one of the reasons I was completely against monetizing this site in any way for 4.5 years. That and because I wasn’t sure it could be done in a way that didn’t make me feel weird or sleazy (Spoiler: It can 🙂 )
So talking about the journey is now partially funding the journey. Super meta. It would have been so much simpler if random other things I like to do were what after years of effort turned a profit, but alas, I’m too lazy to have more than one big hobby at a time 🙂 .
A ‘Pure’ Retirement
If you’re looking for a ‘pure’ case study of people who have made money in retirement (as it seems most do), but are NOT using that money so they can test if their original plan would have worked, check out Millennial Revolution. They created a separate portfolio where they stash their blog, book and other retirement earnings in order to see if their original $1 million CAD portfolio would have sustained them without the extra. So far it has.
I didn’t mean to have two images of Danny DeVito in his tighty whiteys in this post, but that’s just the way the cookie crumbled. Always Sunny is too iconic.
I am not a ‘pure’ case study for several reasons – one of which is that being open to and most likely accidentally making money, was always part of my plan – it’s one of the two levers (flexible spending and flexible earnings) that make me feel comfortable pulling the plug at 30 with an 100% stock portfolio.
I never claimed that my $500,000 would sustain me forever – this is an experiment with a lot of contingencies, but also an acknowledgement that – just like any retirement under the wrong set of circumstances – it could totally fail. However, failure has never really been my concern. And if failure is also defined by making money accidentally, I was almost 100% likely to fail.
So, in case you’re curious, I’m not trying to be a ‘pure’ case study and separate out my portfolios because:
It would mess with my Roth IRA Conversion Ladder that I’m using to access my after-tax money before age 59.5
It would make my taxes more expensive (for no good reason) and more complicated
Most importantly: I’m lazy
The Internet Retirement Police
But what about the inevitable pushback? My partner has declared that he is a card carrying member of the IRP – the internet retirement police – and he says that the cultural perception or definition of a word is what it means, regardless of if that is true or accurate based on a dictionary. For example, the use of the word “literally,” which now means the exact opposite based on real world use.
While the FIRE space is trying to redefine ‘retirement’ as quitting your full-time job or doing whatever you want with your time, the stereotype and cultural definition of retirement is still being old and sitting on a beach and doing nothing that could possibly resemble work.
This is currently the case even though it’s not an accurate reflection of how older retirees spend their time. Most older retirees make money after quitting their full-time job either from necessity or desire. But how do we clarify the lack of facts behind these stereotypes and how does making money from a FIRE blog in retirement factor in?
Conclusion
So I’m retired and I make money from this blog. The small amount I’ve made is not what allowed me to retire early (as I try to make clear by sharing all my numbers) and any money I might make going forward, is not what will allow me to stay retired (the hundreds of thousands I saved before quitting are doing the heavy lifting 😉 ).
And now that I think about it, the fact that I’m deciding in October if I’ll reduce the frequency of posting here or even stop blogging all together, is just another example of how this income is not key to my plans before or during retirement. I don’t need it and I didn’t count on it or ever imagine that I’d even make it since, as I’ve said, a majority of blogs never make much money and I’m a realist 🙂 . However, even though I didn’t factor this accidental income into my plans, I did suspect from looking around at other early retirees, that I would possibly earn some money in retirement – I just didn’t know from what.
Because of my hopefully 70 year retirement timeline, I’ve always been open to making money in the future. I was never going to blindly pull 4% of my starting portfolio every year and see what happened. Flexibility is at the heart of why I feel comfortable quitting this young: flexibility to spend less and earn some money if needed.
Anyway, enough about me. I don’t have a solution or answer to this weird meta-problem we have in this community, but I did want to talk about it because the situation is just that: Weird. I hope my rambling thoughts can start a discussion about this strange reality and how we can all handle it going forward.
What do you think about FIRE blogs making money after retirement? […]
This post may contain affiliate links. For more info read my disclosure.
I’m here to tell you the real truth. FIRE Blogging is a scam. It’s the only way to ‘retire early’ and I know the secret of how you can do it too!
All you have to do is be like me: Write a blog for free for 3.5 years. Then take it public and make -$117.09 writing it for another year. Then monetize it and make -$839 the next year. THEN in your 6th year of writing make $2,070.75 of profit and live on that. It’s super simple!
Just do daily work for 6 years and make a profit of $1,114.66 total: $185.78 a year or $0.26 an hour. It’s foolproof! It has almost as good of a return as an MLM 😉 !
Always Sunny tellin’ it like it is.
Obviously, I’m completely joking. FIRE blogging generally would be a horrible plan to fund a retirement – or any lifestyle. I explained in this post about how blogging has turned out to be my dream job that it also pays basically no money. So then, why does it seem like the only way to retire early is to have a huge FIRE blog?
The Big Blogger ‘Camera Obscura’
As someone who was a lurker and reader in the FIRE community for years before peeking my head out and then raising my hand and then, years later, finally joining it, I think I can see this situation from both sides. Before I was a part of this community, I would see the same 5 bloggers or so, quoted in every mainstream article about FIRE. And those 5 bloggers had retired years ago, but also made a substantial amount from their blogs. And this is a weird tension.
More popular bloggers are by definition going to be making more money because of their larger audiences, so the bloggers I was more likely to hear about, are by definition bigger, money making bloggers. To put this into perspective, we actually hear from a relatively small percentage of actual early retirees because most (like my Mom) don’t have blogs. They’re just living their retired lives 🙂 .
Also, as I mentioned above, most people who have blogs, (retirees included) make basically no money from it. So FIRE bloggers that are big enough to be mentioned in mainstream media, are already usually a subset of two groups: retirees and bloggers who make money.
They are outliers, but because they are most of what we see, we can point to them and say “See! That’s the only way to retire early – to have a blog that shows people how to retire early!” It seems like the people who sell a book for a lot of money about how to sell a book for a lot of money. It’s a weird cyclical conversation that gives me pyramid scheme vibes. And this can appear to be the case, even if a FIRE blog in general (or the income from a blog) was not a part of the person’s original retirement plan.
Blogging Is Not A Great Income Plan
Putting aside the outliers for a second, the truth is that it’s actually quite rare to make any money from a blog and even more rare to make enough to live on. Income from a blog is also very unstable and is one of the first things to drop during a recession – marketing and advertising budgets get slashed, as we saw in March.
For example, the ad revenue from this site hasn’t yet recovered almost a year later. Some companies, understandably, started advertising less and other companies with affiliate programs I use cut the (already small) commissions or even lowered them to 0%. Also, unlike a salary, these changes can happen at any time. There is no guarantee you’ll make money from month to month.
Making Money From A FIRE Blog
So blogging in general is not a great plan if you’re looking to fund your lifestyle, but my situation in particular seems weirder because this is apparently a FIRE blog (or so it’s been called by others 😉 ). It’s basically a blog about me and I’m on FIRE, soooo I guess technically it’s a FIRE blog, though I’m sure that’s not apparent by the random topics I cover each week. I just write about whatever I feel like banging into this computer on a Wednesday morning, which often has little to do with money or financial independence in particular 🙂 .
But now I’m retired and I make a little money off of this blog. This is strange because I assume y’all are here reading this BECAUSE I was on the path to FIRE. If I was just some woman without a goal talking about random things every week, I imagine this would be far less interesting to you (let me know if I’m wrong in the comments 😉 ).
So it’s weirdly circular like the ouroboros below – the serpent that eats itself. This blog is fairly popular because I was on the path to retirement and now after 6 years, I’m making a little money off of this blog for that same reason.
That doesn’t look comfortable bro.
I’m obviously not rolling in the dough from blogging, but after all these years, I am making a little money from this blog and that feels weird and meta to me since it’s a blog about my money journey…which is now paying me a little for my time.
The meta weirdness of it was one of the reasons I was completely against monetizing this site in any way for 4.5 years. That and because I wasn’t sure it could be done in a way that didn’t make me feel weird or sleazy (Spoiler: It can 🙂 )
So talking about the journey is now partially funding the journey. Super meta. It would have been so much simpler if random other things I like to do were what after years of effort turned a profit, but alas, I’m too lazy to have more than one big hobby at a time 🙂 .
A ‘Pure’ Retirement
If you’re looking for a ‘pure’ case study of people who have made money in retirement (as it seems most do), but are NOT using that money so they can test if their original plan would have worked, check out Millennial Revolution. They created a separate portfolio where they stash their blog, book and other retirement earnings in order to see if their original $1 million CAD portfolio would have sustained them without the extra. So far it has.
I didn’t mean to have two images of Danny DeVito in his tighty whiteys in this post, but that’s just the way the cookie crumbled. Always Sunny is too iconic.
I am not a ‘pure’ case study for several reasons – one of which is that being open to and most likely accidentally making money, was always part of my plan – it’s one of the two levers (flexible spending and flexible earnings) that make me feel comfortable pulling the plug at 30 with an 100% stock portfolio.
I never claimed that my $500,000 would sustain me forever – this is an experiment with a lot of contingencies, but also an acknowledgement that – just like any retirement under the wrong set of circumstances – it could totally fail. However, failure has never really been my concern. And if failure is also defined by making money accidentally, I was almost 100% likely to fail.
So, in case you’re curious, I’m not trying to be a ‘pure’ case study and separate out my portfolios because:
It would mess with my Roth IRA Conversion Ladder that I’m using to access my after-tax money before age 59.5
It would make my taxes more expensive (for no good reason) and more complicated
Most importantly: I’m lazy
The Internet Retirement Police
But what about the inevitable pushback? My partner has declared that he is a card carrying member of the IRP – the internet retirement police – and he says that the cultural perception or definition of a word is what it means, regardless of if that is true or accurate based on a dictionary. For example, the use of the word “literally,” which now means the exact opposite based on real world use.
While the FIRE space is trying to redefine ‘retirement’ as quitting your full-time job or doing whatever you want with your time, the stereotype and cultural definition of retirement is still being old and sitting on a beach and doing nothing that could possibly resemble work.
This is currently the case even though it’s not an accurate reflection of how older retirees spend their time. Most older retirees make money after quitting their full-time job either from necessity or desire. But how do we clarify the lack of facts behind these stereotypes and how does making money from a FIRE blog in retirement factor in?
Conclusion
So I’m retired and I make money from this blog. The small amount I’ve made is not what allowed me to retire early (as I try to make clear by sharing all my numbers) and any money I might make going forward, is not what will allow me to stay retired (the hundreds of thousands I saved before quitting are doing the heavy lifting 😉 ).
And now that I think about it, the fact that I’m deciding in October if I’ll reduce the frequency of posting here or even stop blogging all together, is just another example of how this income is not key to my plans before or during retirement. I don’t need it and I didn’t count on it or ever imagine that I’d even make it since, as I’ve said, a majority of blogs never make much money and I’m a realist 🙂 . However, even though I didn’t factor this accidental income into my plans, I did suspect from looking around at other early retirees, that I would possibly earn some money in retirement – I just didn’t know from what.
Because of my hopefully 70 year retirement timeline, I’ve always been open to making money in the future. I was never going to blindly pull 4% of my starting portfolio every year and see what happened. Flexibility is at the heart of why I feel comfortable quitting this young: flexibility to spend less and earn some money if needed.
Anyway, enough about me. I don’t have a solution or answer to this weird meta-problem we have in this community, but I did want to talk about it because the situation is just that: Weird. I hope my rambling thoughts can start a discussion about this strange reality and how we can all handle it going forward.
What do you think about FIRE blogs making money after retirement? […]
This post may contain affiliate links. For more info read my disclosure.
Unfortunately, today I’m not talking about the ridiculous and amazing B-movie The Holiday, but instead what I got up to during Week 12 of early retirement 😉 .
I am also sad to report that this will be the last weekly retirement update on this blog. It’s been an amazing way to dip my toe into retirement and see what actually happens after the plug is pulled, but I do think it’s time to switch to less frequent monthly updates detailing my retired life.
What Did I Do This Week?
I had Commune Family Time. Surprisingly for my hardcore introvert self, this pandemic and the required lack of human interaction, has taken a toll on me during 2020. At first I reveled in it a little (and felt horrible for doing so…). It was wonderful to take a second to just focus on myself, my partner and my job (before I quit) instead of also trying to see people, go places, do things and live a life in addition to that. In retirement, I can now see that doing so took a toll on me, but I don’t see an alternative since I didn’t want to wait until retirement to do everything I dreamed – especially since getting there was never a guarantee.
So after 7 months of seeing no one but my partner outside of a few outside/masked/distanced hangouts I could count on my two hands, I was excited to realize that we would be expanding our bubble by moving in with my BIL, SIL and little nephew when we moved to Georgia right before I quit my job. This new living situation has meant that I have had more social interaction than I am used to, not just during the pandemic, but before it as well.
It meant that the holidays and New Years Eve were full of hangouts instead of me sitting alone in the dark with a seltzer watching the ball drop in Times Square (…which is how I usually rang in the new year in Georgia after my Mom went to bed…). So the main thing I did this week was hang out with people. We watched movies, played games, cooked meals, chatted and generally had a good time and it was quite lovely 🙂 .
I completed the final weeks of the first annual Purplemas! And I must admit, I loved it 🙂 . Using NaNoWriMo to get ahead on posts and then being able to publish more frequently on here in December was really fun! Here are the posts I published in addition to the usual weekly updates:
The Year Of Resilience: 2020 Goals and Accomplishments
How I Lived On $15,886 in 2020
Lessons Learned From 6 Years Of Blog Writing
The Meta-Weirdness Of Making Money From A FIRE Blog In Retirement
Physical
Sleep
One night this week my partner and I didn’t sleep well – and I can’t figure out the reason. We were fine, we went to bed at a reasonable hour, the temperature was perfect and so I don’t know what happened 🙂 . However, this night of less than ideal sleep stuck out to me because it was an anomaly. When I was working, I had more bad nights of sleep than good and it’s interesting to see how that can change relatively quickly.
Before I had many possible reasons for not sleeping well, mostly linked to stress and my brain’s inability to shut up when I have (or am looking for) a job. However, now, I don’t have that and there was no stress or excitement I could link this sleepless night to – especially since it happened to both my partner and I. I guess that just happens sometimes …maybe I’ll blame the elves 😉 .
You gotta respect the elves. I was reminded of that during our re-watch of Eurovision this week.
Other than that anomaly, I slept well this week – and continued my new, post work normal of falling asleep easily, staying asleep and awakening pretty well rested…what a concept 😉 . If I got sleepy by the afternoon, I continued my new love of taking naps. They still feel like a luxury – life is good 🙂 .
Food
When I got back into keto a few weeks ago, I did so with the understanding that I would go off for the holidays. Originally, we had a commune meeting about what traditions we wanted to include in this holiday and what meals we wanted to make. My brother-in-law very kindly started thinking of ways they could make the meals they wanted to make keto for my portion and I realized that that would add another element of work to a holiday that can already be stressful so I declared that I would be off keto for the holidays. This has led to a lot of delicious meals, which I’ll be posting on Instagram…whenever I get around to it 😉 .
Calligraphy
In keeping with the holiday spirit, I used my new calligraphy skills at the request of my partner, to write the names on all the presents we were giving and I also made bookmarks for everyone in keeping with a book tradition I’ll discuss below. I got compliments on my pen(wo)manship and my partner declared that our presents were the prettiest as a result – which is obviously the purpose of the holidays: Winning 😉 .
Mental
Learning
It’s time for my favorite segment: Fun Facts Nobody Asked For! Here’s what I learned and explored this week:
Birdwatching continues! I was happy and surprised to see a Tufted Titmouse on the trellis right outside the kitchen window while I was washing dishes. I freaked out and told the rest of the commune, who were enjoying their morning coffee. We all excitedly looked out the window and it felt like a lovely birds-bringing-us-together moment 🙂 . Later that day, my partner called out to me when he saw (and properly identified!) a Northern Cardinal outside our window. My birding hobby has really infected him as well 😉 . Besides that, I also identified a new bird by sound with my BirdApp: a White Throated Sparrow! I’ve never realized in my 31 years of life how birds sound different, but they do and with the help of this app, I’m starting to be able to tell the difference without the help of technology 🙂 . Anyway, get ready for a lot more Bird News in the following months because:
Look what I got for Christmas 😍. IT’S BIRDING TIME🦉💜🐦🙌🏾🕊️🥰!!! pic.twitter.com/tut1s81wzJ
— A Purple Life (@APurpleLifeBlog) December 25, 2020
The commune wanted to try a new holiday tradition of buying books for each other to enjoy on Christmas Eve. Well it turns out that this is an Icelandic tradition (maybe Eurovision is still infecting our minds ;)) and it’s called Jólabókaflóð.
I finally found some proof for what I should call my Baby Cousin – my cousin’s son: First Cousin Once Removed. I found this chart which had the best explanation I’ve seen of what to call different types of cousins. It isn’t intuitive (…like most of English…) but at least now I know 🙂 .
I found some new awesome Holiday Music thanks to my partner including the two songs below:
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Singing in sync. from oddlysatisfying
Stargazing was amazing this week – it was phenomenally clear and easy to see our celestial friends. So every night I tried to pick out a star and learn more about it. I got through a grand total of 3 despite the seeming simplicity of the task 🙂 . I saw and learned about Betelgeuse, Polaris and Aldebaran. I also discovered this awesome site that tells you what the Hubble Telescope saw on your birthday – nerdy fun! I also saw the constellation Cassiopeia for the first time in the south. I used to pick it out of the sky when we lived in the north, but hadn’t noticed it down here before. In addition, it was the Full Cold Moon at the end of December. I actually thought someone had turned a flood light on because of how bright it was in the sky at night. We also had the Jupiter/Saturn Conjunction or “Christmas Star” they made with the moon at the end of December. It was the closest we’ve been able to observe these planets since the middle ages, which is cool. What’s not cool is that I wasn’t able to see it 🙁 . It was a clear night, but by the time the conjunction happened, it was too close to the horizon. It was the first time I wished I lived on a mansion on a hill over the Pacific Ocean 😉 . However, on the bright side, I’ve noticed that I’ve started to know vaguely what time it is based on the Position of the Constellations, and I was able to watch this gorgeous Northern Lights show live that was happening in Finland:
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I also learned this:
TIL that grapefruit can mess with hundreds of medications – including birth control😳. I guess it’s time to live dangerously🤣. pic.twitter.com/iQstJi3Cfa
— A Purple Life (@APurpleLifeBlog) December 23, 2020
Money
Ah money, money, money 🙂 . So, several fun things happened this week. Here’s one:
Partner: So what’s your budget for a 2 week beach vacation rental🏖️?Me: Whatevs.Partner: Whatevs?!
…Who have I become😈?! pic.twitter.com/ubPAVYz2F8
— A Purple Life (@APurpleLifeBlog) December 30, 2020
As you can see, my ambivalence towards money has continued. I am still so curious when or if it will end 🙂 .
Here’s another fun thing that happened:
I received my first taxable dividend payout in my checking account…and it felt weird 🙂 . Waking up to seeing money from my investments in my checking account ready for spending, is a huge change from the last 6 years of me just saving, saving, saving and not touching my investments. It was “Future Me’s” money – well now the future is here and it’s time to bro down 😉 .
The other thing that happened is that the hellscape of 2020 ended and I got to finalize my net worth numbers for the year:
…and that’s ridiculous to see. If we’re grasping for 2020 positives, one would be that it made me realize even more than I could have ever imagined that I cannot predict what the stock market is going to do. My portfolio ended up 21% while I felt like the world was exploding around me. So, once again, I’m glad I’m a hardcore index fund investor and just enjoying the ridiculous ride 🙂 .
Emotional
Time Dilation & Calendars
I officially feel like an off the grid hermit compared to the woman I was 3 months ago who knew what date, weekday and time it was at any second. I had client finances, calendars, names and faces memorized. My boss would literally ask me “when is X deliverable due?” and I would respond “EOD Monday, December 28th.” Similarly, I could recite client finances at the drop of a hat.
Well, that shit is all out the window 🙂 . I’ve started having to put actual reminders on my calendar for video chats with friends and family because I just forget. When I was working, I was constantly looking at my work and personal calendar – I had it memorized. Now, I rarely look at it and have no idea what’s going on.
I don’t know what day of the week it is most of the time and definitely don’t remember the date, or if I promised to call someone at a certain time, so I’ve become someone who requires my phone to blare “15 minutes until video chat with Mom!” I never thought I would get here given my anal retentive tendencies for my entire life previously, but here we are.
I’ve almost missed several virtual hangs with people and it’s made me change my tune. I guess this is the new, retired me: a slug/hermit who has no idea what day or time it is 🙂 . I thought being on top of those things were just a part of my personality, but that has proven to be untrue.
Conclusion
And that’s it! This is going to be my last weekly retirement update that goes through everything within a specific week. We’re now going to switch to monthly updates. I’m currently planning for them to have the same format, but obviously cover 4 weeks instead of 1. I will do my best to not make them novel length as a result 😉 .
I’m going to aim to have each monthly update out the first Tuesday of the month. In case you missed any weekly updates, they are all listed below. I hope y’all have enjoyed these 🙂 . If there’s any topic you would like to see incorporated into the monthly updates, feel free to let me know.
Early Retirement Week 1: The Freak Out
Early Retirement Week 2: The Vacation
Early Retirement Week 3: The Whiplash
Early Retirement Week 4: The Heartbeat
Early Retirement Week 5: The Election
Early Retirement Week 6: The Trophy
Early Retirement Week 7: The Train
Early Retirement Week 8: The Challenge
Early Retirement Week 9: The Question
Early Retirement Week 10: The Game
Early Retirement Week 11: The Recharge
What did you do this week? […]
Are you all ready for this? It’s one of my favorite days of the year! I just spent an hour entering data in Quicken, then another thirty minutes analyzing it. It’s time to run some numbers.
How well did I do with my financial goals last year? Was I able to cut back on dining out? (Hint: There was a global pandemic. What do you think?) Did my net worth rise or fall? Let’s take a look.
First, let’s review where I was at the end of 2019.
Quite simply, I was a mess. Objectively, my life was good, but subjectively it was a disaster. My mental health was in shambles. Depression and anxiety were crippling me and truly affecting my relationships with other people. I felt like I was in the middle of a prolonged car crash.
The good news is that, for the most part, 2020 was much better from a personal perspective. Yes, I understand that 2020 sucked for a lot of people. And it was the most tumultuous year our country has seen in a generation. But for me, personally, the year was mostly good. I’ll explain why this is in a bit, but first lets look at the Big Picture.
My Net Worth
Here’s my end-of-year net worth from each of the past three years. (These numbers do not include the value of my business or this website.)
At the end of 2018, my net worth was $1,334,227 — a 15.2% decrease from 2017.
At the end of 2019, my net worth was $1,437,543 — a 7.7% increase from 2018.
At the end of 2020, my net worth was $1,373,233 — a 4.5% decrease from 2019.
Now, on paper a decrease of net worth amounting to $64,310 might seem scary. Maybe it’s because I’m in a better mental space than last year, but it doesn’t bother me. This may also be due to the fact that I realize most of that drop comes from Zillow’s valuation of our home.
At the end of 2019, Zillow said our country cottage was worth $495,749. At the end of 2020, the home was valued at $437,127, which is a drop of $58,622.
Yes, I realize using Zillow to track our home value is…erratic. And it leads to fluctuations like this. Still, I feel like it’s a solid enough source for home values, and it gives me some sort of number to go on.
That’s one way of looking at it. But looked at another way, things are a little dicier. You see, I currently live off of my investments. Most of those investments are in retirement accounts, which I can’t touch (unless I want a tax penalty) for another eight years. At the start of 2019, my regular taxable investment accounts contained $269,264. Today, they have $197,117. That there could also be my drop in net worth.
One thing is certain, though. That $197,117 isn’t enough to get me to age 59-1/2 at my current level of spending. I need to spend less, earn more, or (preferably) both.
Now, let’s look at some of the numbers in greater detail.
NoteI’m still tracking my money in Quicken 2007. I continue to try new money apps but none of them is as good as this clunky old program.
Having said that, I didn’t track my spending from May 12th to October 1st last year. I wasn’t spending anything, so I thought the process was pointless. (In retrospect, I wish I had continue to track the numbers because they would have made a good baseline.) Because of this break, I have no way to know exactly what I spent over the course of the entire year. But I do have complete numbers for the first quarter (mostly pre-COVID) and the last quarter.
Food Spending
A year ago, I declared that my financial goal for 2020 was to spend less on food. I’m pleased to report that I achieved this goal although I had some help from a global pandemic. The COVID crisis kept me (and most people) at home. Yes, we did eat out now and then, but it was rare. And it was outside, when possible.
Here’s my food spending from 2020.
From January to March, I spent $1700.91 on food (or about $566.97 per month). Of this, $1189.28 ($396.42 per month) was on groceries and $498 ($166 per month) was on dining out.
From October to December, I spent $1751.26 on food (or about $583.75 per month). Of this, $1427.81 ($475.94 per month) was on groceries and $323.45 (107.82 per month) was on dinging out.) I should also note that the bulk of this food spending was in December ($663.32 on groceries, $92.00 on our only restaurant meal, and $755.62 total).
So, yay! I met my goal! My monthly food spending dropped from $1053.28 in 2019 to $575.36 in 2020. If I had tracked the stats during the middle of the year, that number would be even lower.
To put things into perspective, here’s a tiny spreadsheet comparing my monthly food spending over the last four years. Numbers from 2019 are incomplete. And numbers from last year are for the first quarter and laster quarter combined. (Again, data is missing for the middle of the year.)
That looks like some solid progress to me.
And you know what? I’m willing to bet that a big part of that drop in spending is because I drank less alcohol in 2020. Technically, I don’t want my alcohol spending to appear as “food”. I have a separate category for booze. In reality, I’m lazy and I rarely separate beer and wine purchases from other grocery purchases. So, I think some of that drop in food spending is because I was drinking less.
Let’s talk a little more about that.
Booze Spending
Perhaps the biggest win for me in 2020 — financially and otherwise — was my decreased dependence on alcohol.
I had two stints last year during which I was alcohol free: January 1st to mid-February, then Independence Day to Halloween. And since I “fell off the wagon” at the end of October, I’ve done fairly good about minimizing my alcohol intake. (I refuse to keep whiskey or wine in the house. If I’m truly craving a beer, I drive to the store to buy one. Or two. This policy has really helped me cut down on how much I consume.)
In 2019, I was spending roughly $200 each month on alcohol. In 2018, this was closer to $300 per month. Holy cats! In 2020, I spent zero on alcohol for half the year. During the six months I tracked my expenses last year, I spent a total of $227.07 on booze — $37.85 per month.
My marijuana expense was also down. Pot is cheaper than alcohol in the first place, but I was also trying to reduce my use of weed while I was trying to cut out alcohol. I spent maybe $20 a month on the stuff in 2020.
As an added benefit, by cutting out alcohol I was better able to lose weight. I’m currently down more than 25 pounds since July. (I want to lose another five or ten pounds, then turn my attention to building strength once more.)
Best of all? My mental health improved! In September and October, after being alcohol-free for a few months, I was enjoying peak performance. I was happier and more productive than I have been in years. This benefit to reduced alcohol use is the best benefit of all and the one most likely to keep me away from the stuff.
Now, as I mentioned, I’ve resumed drinking some. I’ve had four beers in the past week, for instance (including New Year’s). For now, I’m okay with this. My mental and physical health seem great at this level of consumption. But there’s still a chance I’ll opt to give up the stuff completely for an extended period of time. (I have a sticky note on my work computer with a question that Tom asked me in October: “What’s the postive for you in using alcohol and pot?” Great question.)
Big Spending
The sorest spot in my budget over the past few years has been big expenses. In 2015, I spent $35,000 on an RV. In 2017, we sold the condo and bought this country cottage, then poured money into repairs and upgrades. In 2018, we spent more on remodeling.
Well, last year didn’t have any major home expenses but I did replace my Mini Cooper, at long last.
At the end of June, I spent $40,000 on a 2019 Mini Countryman SE All4. This seemed like a good idea at the time. In retrospect, the purchase wasn’t the smartest move. The car is fine — it’s not great but it’s not bad — and I enjoy driving it. I especially like that most of my driving is now electric (and that I’m averaging 53 miles per gallon.) But I don’t drive often enough or value vehicles enough to justify having spent this much on a car.
I don’t want to say this was a dumb move…but I think it was probably a dumb move.
Time will tell.
Looking ahead, 2021 should have zero large expenses. I hope. We’ve performed all of the repairs and upgrades we need to do on the house. (I say that, yet I’m worried about the foundation settling.) I just bought a car. My health is good. We have no big trips planned. Our food spending seems to be under control. I have high hopes that 2021 will, at long last, be a year without major outlays. Fingers crossed!
Final Thoughts
Honestly, nothing else about my spending worries me. There were a couple of categories that saw increases last year — books and movies — but this doesn’t bother me. COVID has led me to read more and to watch more shows. These forms of entertainment are relatively inexpensive. All the same, I’ll keep an eye out to be sure my book and movie spending doesn’t become problematic.
Here are a couple of final thoughts after crunching the numbers.
My new electric hybrid is amazing when it comes to fuel costs. It has an electric range of roughly 16 miles. That doesn’t seem like much, but it coveres 90% of my driving. I’m getting 53 miles per gallon overall. I last put gas in the tank on November 8th and it’s still half full. (The downside is that it only gets about 23 mpg when using the combustion engine.) My fuel expense has dropped from $100/month to $20/month.
My spending on streaming services boomed at the end of 2020, but part of that is because I’m researching and writing a GRS article on the subject. Three TV-replacement services totals $200/month! But I only had those for one month. (And, in retrospect, I should have made them a business expense.)
The bottom line? Last year was pretty good for me. I’m certainly starting 2021 in a much better mental state than I started 2020. Things aren’t perfect but are they ever? I have a good life, an amazing partner in Kim, and I’m currently enjoying the work I’m doing here at Get Rich Slowly and at my newly-revived personal site.
Looking ahead, I don’t have any specific personal financial goals. I guess that I want to increase my income. To that end, I’ll continue channeling my renewed focus on this website.
2020 was a mixed bag for the business side of Get Rich Slowly. The initial expenses in re-acquiring the site have been paid, so my costs were a lot lower last year. That said, so was revenue. The site earned something like $72,000 (before expenses) in 2019. In 2020, that fell to about $30,000.
Some of my colleagues make big bucks from their blogs. I don’t. I’m okay with that, though, because I recognize that many of the decisions I make are deliberately reader-centric, which means I’m foregoing easy money. Still, it would be nice to boost revenue so that I could draw income from the work I do here. Let’s see what that looks like going forward…
Okay, it’s your turn. How was your 2020? […]
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